Happiness Is Your Own Choice
Most of us compare ourselves with anyone we think is happier a relative, someone we know a lot, or someone we hardly know. As a result, what we do remember is anything that makes the others happy, anything that makes ourselves unhappy, totally forgetting that there is something happy in our own life.
So the best way to destory happiness is to look at something and focus on even the smallest flaw. It is the smallest flaw that would make us complain. And it is the complain that leads to us becoming unhappy.
If one chooses to be happy, he will be blessed; if he chooses to be unhappy, he will be cursed. Happiness is just what you think will make you happy.
我們大多數人都喜歡跟我們的親戚、熟識的朋友或不怎麼了解的人進行比較，總認為他們比我們快樂。結果呢，我們確確實實記住了令他人快樂的`事，紮紮實實記住了使自己不快樂的事，完完全全忘記了我們自己生活中也有快樂的一面。
所以，毀滅快樂的最好方法是眼睛盯著某物並把注意力集中到最微不足道的缺點上。引起我們抱怨的，就是這些微不足道的缺點;而導致我們不快樂的，正是這些抱怨。
如果你選擇快樂，你將得到祝福;如果你選擇痛苦，你就會受到詛咒。那麼，如果你選擇快樂，你就快樂。
