人生在世，怎麼總會是一帆風順?又何必去期盼那不切實際的風平浪靜?試問若沒有坎坷，沒有荊棘，只有一條平坦的大道，你不決得枯燥單調嗎?
人生，正是由於它的坎坷與曲折，才具有了獨特的意義。敢於正視這些，並滿懷信心地與命運拼搏者，才能成為強者;反之，懼怕它，隨波逐流者必遭失敗。而你恰恰是後者。為什麼?你難道不清楚嗎?你甘願這樣消沉下去嗎?上海傢俱團購你甘心將你十幾年來的努力輕易放棄麼?難道你想讓那美麗的理想，到頭來成為一個美麗的夢麼?你有沒有為關心幫助過你的人想一想，他們見你這樣會很傷心，很失望?你有沒有為你辛勤勞作的父母想一想，他們為你付出了很多，對你抱有很大的期望，難道你就忍心讓他們痛心，讓他們失望?好好想想吧，你目前的情形對得起誰?
別那樣多愁善感好不好，你這是自作多情，自作自受，是活該!世界本來單純可愛?你卻把它想像的如此複雜，明明簡簡單單一件事，你卻把他想象成一團亂麻。到頭來，你的思想也變成一團亂麻，可偏偏你又不懂得怎樣才是快刀斬亂麻或者說你不懂跟本就不願意用快到斬亂麻。這是你的致命弱點，你只有改掉這個弱點，才可能成功。
你也不必故作深沉，故作清高。這並不說明你很成熟，相反。它總是更多地暴露了你的幼稚，何必掩飾自己，以真實的你去面對生活，生活就會真誠的對待你。其實真實的你才是最可愛的，從現在開始，你得摘掉虛偽的面具，勇敢地面對生活。
不必感嘆命運的不公，不要幻想太多美好的事物，惟有奮起直追，才是你的唯一出路，其實你也想奮起直追，不是麼?什麼原因使你沒能奮起，更別說直追呢?是覺得現實殘酷，覺得困難太多?不是，最關鍵的還是在於你自己。是你在不知不覺中選擇了放棄，是你那古怪又複雜的思想在作怪。你的心裡也十分苦惱，不是麼;你很自卑，很痛苦。你看任何事情都不順眼，幹什麼事都不順心，這便成了你放棄的理由，事實上，你沒有理由放棄。
前進的路上，總會有坎坷，總會有荊棘，這些算的了什麼?拿出勇氣衝破它，迎接你的將是鮮花和微笑。不經一番寒徹骨，哪有梅花撲鼻。現在的你除了奮力拼搏，別無選擇，你永遠都是優秀的，只要你肯拼搏，只要自己奮鬥過，即使不能成功，也問心無愧。更何況你付出了，怎麼會有不收穫的道理?
對自己說：我永遠都是優秀的!
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非常經典有深度的電影英文臺詞
1.一個人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風景，聽陌生的歌，然後在某個不經意的瞬間，你會發現，原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當燈滅了，你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最後可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛情，要麼讓人成熟，要麼讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜，大多數人的愛情，都是負重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人，用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人，再用一天的時間去愛上一個人，到最後呢，卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長，終於領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最後成為記憶裡不再重要的某一天，我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車裡，與相鄰列車交錯時，彷彿自己在前進的錯覺，而是我們真實的在成長，在這件事裡成了另一個自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的`，更要珍惜。屬於自己的，不要放棄。已經失去的，留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人，充滿變數，我於是後退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見真誠的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那裡。然後去愛。不知道是什麼，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒有感性，就要理性;如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時間，一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
